Monday, August 29, 2011

26 days

My 26 days in Los Angeles (sans 5 days spent in Cabo) went by pretty quickly. This past Thursday was my one-year anniversary of moving to NYC. While I can't yet say anything definitive, some casual observations about which is better, L.A. or NYC, can still be made... (drumroll):

Transportation costs: In the past 26 days I put 900 miles on my car, spent nearly $100 on gasoline, another $21 on an oil change, and roughly $20 on parking. Not to mention wear and tear on my car. I even skimped on going through a car wash to save $15. In comparison? A one-month unlimited Metro card costs $104. NYC FTW. Now I'm thinking the cost of that Metro card isn't that bad after all.

Food: People rave about food in NYC but I have yet to discover any place that has truly amazed me. Sure, I have a couple of favorites already, but I am still struggling to find good Asian foods. Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, and Korean foods win in L.A. Other cuisines also win simply for the price. Not only is food in L.A. less expensive, it's also fresher and tastes better year round.

Weather: I think most people would say L.A. wins overall. But I actually found myself, several times, preferring the summer weather in NYC. Except for days of unbearable heat and humidity, I enjoy a pleasant 80 during the day and a pleasant 70 at night. It means I can wear tank tops and shorts all day without having to bring a sweater. Summer nights in L.A. are a bit too chilly for my tastes. However, 26 days and sunny every single day (nary a hurricane in sight)...I think it's a toss up.

Neither wins. Nevertheless, I am looking forward to heading back to NYC. Hopefully the recent hurricane hasn't been too disastrous. Was worried about my little 15th floor room. Am looking forward to lounging on my couch and watching TV (yes, I realize I can do that anywhere in the world, but, this one's my own personal space, for now).

Unlike one year ago, I'm not anxious or apprehensive. I won't feel all out of sorts. However I think I do still feel somewhat disjointed, disconnected. As if I'm split between two coasts. I want to be in both places at the same time. Or at least traverse between the two more frequently. Yet somehow the journey is incredibly long.

ONT to LGA tomorrow!

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

"I miss you. I'm going back home to the West Coast."

So sings Jason Schwartzman on "West Coast."

Tomorrow I head back to L.A., so only natural that I take a moment to reflect. Three weeks shy of my one-year anniversary of moving to NYC. And haven't been back to the West coast since early January.

Unbelievable! I can't believe it's been one year. It's true when they say time seems to move faster when you get older, because yes, I find myself grappling over where my time went. Summer technically started on May 10th for me, and the weeks and months have since flown by. I definitely tried to make the most out my time, seeing and doing new things as much as possible.


Yesterday I took a nice long walk down "Cherry Walk" along the Hudson at sunset. It was only my second time there (the first was way back in the fall when the leaves had first started to change). Fitting, as I mark that moment as my first true NYC moment - that is, a moment when I felt really glad I moved, because I wouldn't have experienced it if I hadn't. With that said, moments:
  • Cherry Walk along the Hudson River (October)
  • Jeff Tweedy's solo show at the Bowery Ballroom (December)
  • starting a dance party in the Amsterdam Restaurant lounge on the Friday before finals (May)
  • biking around Governors Island (June)
  • watching the setting sun cast an orange glow on Upper East Side buildings across the reservoir in Central Park (two days ago)
  • Cherry Walk along the Hudson River (yesterday)
There's more to this list, but probably not more than I want to share publicly (sorry, readers).

I definitely still miss L.A. and long for weather that is neither too hot nor too cold. I'm also looking forward to not having to look where I step while walking, not smelling garbage, and not having to touch strangers (accidentally, of course).

Roughly two years ago around this time I looked up at the U.S. map I had tacked up on the cork board above my desk and I looked at Los Angeles and I gazed across the map to New York and thought, "How do I get from there, to there?" And you know what? I did it. And I'm glad I did.

Friday, July 29, 2011

Words & Phrases, a primer

A list of words/phrases I never heard or used before moving to NYC:

bridge and tunnel: refers to the people who live outside of Manhattan
e.g., I don't fraternize with the bridge and tunnel people.

brownstone: a type of material that characterizes certain buildings popular in New York, especially in Brooklyn neighborhoods
e.g., It sure would be nice to live in one of those brownstones.

stoop: a small, steep set of stairs leading up to a brownstone, where people can sit and talk like they did on 227.
e.g., I'd sit on my stoop every day if I lived in a brownstone.

to stay or to go: The two options you have when ordering food at a counter at a casual dining establishment.
e.g., "Can I have the chicken please?" "To stay or to go?" "For here...er, I mean to stay."

get/wait/stand on line: Same as get/wait/stand in line.
No example as this makes no sense.

dip your card: Somehow, machines in New York are never swipeable, so you "dip" your card...which implies a vertical plunge, but is also not the case. Indeed, it is more like a "insert and remove quickly" but perhaps they prefer "dip" for simplicity's sake and everyone seems to get it.

scratchiti: Exactly what you think it is.
e.g., Defacing public property is against the law! No graffiti or scratchiti!


A list of words/phrases I used in L.A. that became defunct after moving to NYC:
(no definitions necessary for my Angeleno readers)

dude: all-purpose term that still slips out once in awhile.
e.g., Dude, get out of my way! Dude, that's awesome!

The 405 (emphasis on "the")
e.g., It quickly became apparent that there would be no Carmageddon at the closure of the 405.

Sepulveda Pass (I don't miss this at all)
e.g., Ugh, Obama is in town, and it took me OVER AN HOUR to get through the Sepulveda Pass!

sig alert
e.g., Ugh, there's a sig alert on the Sepulveda Pass!

animal style
e.g., I'll have a double-double animal style, fries extra crispy, and a Neopolitan.

June Gloom (I don't miss this one either)
e.g., "Why is it so gloomy?" "It's June Gloom! We have this every year, don't you remember?" "Oh yeah."

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Favorite Spots

There's something to be said about developing a "favorite spot." I think it means I've been here long enough to have developed a favorite spot. Favorites, while I have many of them all over my hometown of Los Angeles, have been slowly trickling in, in NYC. Another sign of passage of time, I suppose, is developing and associating memories, either happy or sad, to a spot.

My first favorite spot in NYC is Union Square. Cliche? Possibly. I mean, who doesn't like Union Square? It's a nice place to sit. It's easy to get to. (I might add that it's been months since I've needed to pull out my Streetwise Manhattan map to figure out where I'm going). (I might also add that I recently gave an older Korean lady who spoke no English directions from Union Square to Macy's...pretty good, eh?). There are also a lot of stores in Union Square. Like Filene's Basement, DSW, Nordstrom Rack, and not too far down the street, Trader Joe's Wine Shop. (Ahh, that's the real reason). If I'm hungry I can buy sushi from Whole Foods and sit upstairs in the expansive dining area and look out the window at the view. Even Filene's Basement (a discount store like Ross) has chairs set up to look out the window.
Union Square
view from Filene's Basement after a sudden rain
memories both happy and sad

Monday, July 4, 2011

NYC Moments

It's been a little over 10 months now since I moved to NYC and I feel like I'm no longer justified to call myself a newbie, even if I still feel somewhat lost in some neighborhoods.

One thing's for sure, I stopped counting the total number of days since I've been here.

Also? I bought plane tickets to go back to L.A. for my summer break and I haven't even counted the number of days until I go back. And it's not that I'm not excited to go back. There are a lot of things I need to do. See family and friends. Eat at my favorite restaurants. Go hiking. And drive, and drive, and drive.

The list of things I need to bring back to NYC is substantially shorter than the list I made right before xmas. It's like 5 items compared to 50.

I am actually going to be in L.A. long enough to cover 4 full weekends (every weekend in August). This is good as it will give me time to see more people. But somehow, I am actually concerned about the things I might miss out on in NYC while I'm gone. Can you believe it!

Part of the reason I'm getting more adjusted to living in NYC is probably the weather. (Okay, I promise to stop talking about this after today). But if it is warm and sunny out, and I don't need to bring a coat to go out, then I'm more likely to go out. I'm also more likely to walk from Point A to Point B instead of hiding underground, which forces me to see more things and see how the city streets connect. Manhattan is really small, after all.

Of course another reason is simply that I've settled in. Passage of time. I can officially say I love my room now. After the couch, then the black out curtains, and all my junk, of course, filled the room and made it "my own" (cheese, I know, I know).

So to the title of this post. Moments. They have been few and far between, but one of my rare NYC Moments happened on June 10, 2011. What's a moment, you say? That's when, in the middle of something, I suddenly feel elated to be in New York. And I think, this wouldn't have happened if I didn't move here. And I smile.

This one happened on a Free Bike Friday on Governors Island. Ferry to the island is free, the bike rental is free, and the feeling biking around the island with views of Manhattan, the Statue of Liberty, and Brooklyn are amazing.


Long Overdue Post

I meant to post these pics long ago but have gotten sidetracked by all my various activities and preoccupations.

November 24, 2010
January 28, 2011

May 25, 2011
These were all taken from the same spot in Central Park. One thing that still continues to amaze me, even though it's obviously nothing new to most people, are the drastic changes in climate. This simply doesn't happen where I'm from!! It still boggles my mind that a place that can get so hot can also get so cold.