Friday, July 31, 2015

Coming to a Close

Well, my time in my little room, and quite possibly, NYC is coming to a close soon. I wish I had been better at keeping up with this blog over the past 5 years, but I'm glad that at least in the first year, I posted rather often, because it's pretty interesting to look at back at photos and thoughts. Now that I'm dismantling my room in about two weeks, it's interesting to look back at the post from August 2010, where I felt like the line from the Talking Heads song was permanently stuck in my head ("MY GOD, WHAT HAVE I DONE?").

I don't think I posted many updates on how I ended up making the bare room that felt like a prison feel more like a cozy home that I am now sad to leave. I think in that original post I talked about pushing the bed into the center of the room so that it felt more like a hotel room and less like a dorm/prison. Well that lasted about a week, before I felt like I couldn't sleep well because I was "floating" in the center and not anchored to the wall. I think it's because it's a twin bed so it's too narrow to just put in the center of a room. So I ended up pushing it back to its original location, to the wall. Here's a quick summary of other things I gradually did to make the little room feel like home:

  1. Bought a TV (after the first week...I realized it was too quiet without one)
  2. Added about 5 different lamps to adjust the lighting for different situations (studying vs. lounging vs. winding down for bed)
  3. Bought the couch (see May 2011 post)
  4. Added blackout curtains using a tension rod, around June 2011 (what a lifesaver)
  5. Added a mirror and shoe rack in the entrance (this was such a small addition, yet somehow it made a huge difference...the entrance looked cleaner and more organized)
That's it I guess. And that was all in the first year. And then after that, it was just time...time to sink in and get accustomed to a routine and feel like things are just right.

Well, five years is a good run and it's not like I would want to live here forever. For starters it would be nice to have more space and a real kitchen and a bed for grown ups. Still it's sad to leave especially knowing that my future is a bit uncertain at the moment. I'm just taking things about one month at a time.

Some random photos from the past few years:

Central Park, January 28, 2011

Brooklyn Botanic Garden, April 13, 2012

DUMBO, September 29, 2012
Chinatown, February 3, 2013
Coney Island, July 26, 2013
Park Slope, Brooklyn, November 3, 2013

Certainly there's not such a drastic change in seasons in L.A.! It's quite beautiful in the photographs, even if it's freezing for a couple months and sweltering hot for another couple months. More posts and photos to come...


Monday, July 1, 2013

NYC Summer Handbag Contents*

  1. wallet
  2. keys
  3. iPhone
  4. umbrella (because it rains all the time!)
  5. small plastic bag to hold wet umbrella
  6. magazine or book (because there is a lot of waiting around)
  7. water bottle (absolutely critical in this heat)
  8. insect repellent
  9. Benadryl cream to treat swollen mosquito bites
  10. Tylenol (in case of headache from heat exhaustion)
Optional items:
  • sunglasses (because the sun is usually blocked by clouds or skyscrapers anyway)
  • a snack (because you can always find something to eat anyway)
  • camera (only if going somewhere worth taking photos that the iPhone can't do, such as night scenes)
 *Note: Only Numbers 7-10 are different from Winter Handbag Contents.

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Before it gets too hot...or before it gets too cold

Two phrases I find myself saying in NYC, that I never said before.

Kind of obvious for everyone else, but not for this native SoCal girl. Sure it gets hot in the valleys. Sure it can get kind of cold some days in the winter. But it's rarely "too hot" or "too cold" to do something like it is here.

For example:

"Let's go jogging before it gets too hot/too cold."
"Let's rent bikes and bike Central Park before it gets too hot/too cold."
"Let's go to the beach before it gets too hot/too cold."

Too hot was this past weekend, when it was in the 90s and humid.
Too cold was probably around late November or so. For me personally, any time it's below 55.
There was one day in early December when I was out and about and forced to buy an expensive sweater from Brooklyn Industries because I was too cold and too far from home to go back to get a sweater. I think it was below 40 that day.

There's only a small window of time when the weather is perfect, and not even consistently so. Maybe about a month to a month and a half in the spring, and likewise for the fall. Except, interspersed in those days are crazy thunderstorms and days when the weather can't decide what season it wants to be.

It makes you appreciate those days that are sunny and 72, like today, that are most days in L.A. Yet I never noticed them in L.A. because it was such the norm.

I think I'll head to the park and lounge. Before it gets too hot.

Thursday, May 16, 2013

The Kao Goes Island Hopping

The Kao has done little roaming in the past year. Unless you count going to the Galapagos Islands. And Taiwan. Okay that's a lot of roaming. A few pics to illustrate:

Swallow-tailed gull on Plaza Sur (South Plaza Island)

Galapagos Tortoise - Santa Cruz Island

Leon Dormido
Those are from the Galapagos Islands, which I went to in August. Hands down, the most amazing place I've visited in the world, and I have been (with all modesty here) all over the world. I appreciate it more and more the farther removed I am from it. When I was there, it was pretty cool, but the enormity of the experience didn't hit me until I left, first, landing in the familiarity that is Los Angeles smog and traffic, and then, diving into the concrete dirt world of New York City. I follow the Facebook page of the cruise ship I was on, just so I can reminisce with the new photos they post. Sure, they're all the same few scenes over and over again, but still amazing nonetheless. It reminds us of where we are in the larger world. Interesting how, the juxtaposition of living in on an overdeveloped island with visiting mostly untouched by humans islands can make me think this way.

Speaking if islands (I see a recurring theme in my life), I also visited Taiwan in March. I hadn't been there in 9 years. And it was my 7th trip there over the course of my life.

MRT station


how people traditionally buy produce

Bellavita department store

Oddly enough, although I'm glad Taiwan has achieved economic success over the years, I found myself somewhat nostalgic of the Taipei I remember in the 1980s - the one with swarms of people crowding the streets, crazy cab drivers, and the perpetual reek of sewage hanging in the air. Oh wait, kinda like NYC now! (Alright alright... it doesn't stink of sewage all over NYC...just in some parts). Taipei now is...eerily clean. The streets were...eerily empty, in some parts. Have they all taken to the underground metro? Or am I getting too big for my britches?

Aside from these two international trips, the Kao has been sequestered in NYC. I largely spend my time dividing it between Morningside Heights (aka, Asian Harlem) and Park Slope, Brooklyn, skipping all the stuff in between.

Honestly, it was too cold to do much else. If it wasn't cold, it was raining, or snowing, or there was a blizzard, or a hurricane, or something. Now that the weather is finally getting nicer, it's time to break out of the routine. After all, breaking a routine was the reason why I moved to NYC in the first place...

More later. I promise!

Friday, November 2, 2012

Superstorm Sandy

View from my window Monday night around 8 p.m. Flag shredded.

Tuesday morning around 10 a.m. "And the flag was still there..." Stars and a couple of stripes remain.
So I experienced my first hurricane. Though, technically it wasn't a hurricane anymore by the time it got to us. Was downgraded to "Post-Tropical Cyclone Sandy." It was kind of strange because the severity of it didn't register to us until after the fact. I think in the days leading up to it, it didn't even seem like it'd be a big deal. "Oh it's just a Category 1" we thought. When they closed down all the subways at 7 p.m. Sunday night, we thought the government was overreacting. Well, turns out that they reacted appropriately.

Well, if I hadn't turned on the TV or had my eyes glued to the Internet and my Twitter feed the past four days, I probably wouldn't have understood the severity of it either. Luckily, my neighborhood was largely unscathed. It was one of those rare times that it was advantageous to live uptown. The rest of the city (not to mention neighboring states) didn't fare so well.

A rough timeline (including personal) of the past few days:

Saturday: The city was crowded with Halloween-party shoppers. Seemed to be little concern about the upcoming storm. There were rumors that the subway might close at 7 p.m. Sunday. I spent a quiet evening at home doing laundry (which turned out to be a fantastic idea). Went to store to pick up some fruit, bread, milk, and eggs (which also turned out to be a fantastic idea).

Sunday: Spent the whole day indoors. It was cloudy. Wind speeds were picking up. Got a message before noon that school would be closed Monday. Public schools would also be closed Monday. Subways closed at 7 p.m. Still a bunch of sitting around and waiting.

Monday: I woke up in the morning expecting it to be pouring rain. It wasn't. Some light rain off and on throughout the day. Winds picked up more and more as night fell. The flag (pictured above) whipped violently back and forth around the flag pole. Gradually I watched it deteriorate, starting with the edges fraying. Meanwhile, the local news made me feel anxious. Seemed like impending disaster was coming. I hard boiled my eggs. Cooked several dishes of food. Looked for my candles and got my flashlights ready. Filled up pots and pans with water. Made ice cubes and ice packs in case I needed to turn my fridge into a makeshift cooler. Sent several friends the number to my land line (yes, I have a land line). Sat and waited, all day. Then, from about 8-10 p.m. was the height of the storm. I kept the TV on and my eyes glued to the Twitter feed. Photos and videos kept popping up of flooding.

Things seemed calm in my 'hood. I don't know what I was expecting to see outside my window, but I didn't see anything. It was windy, but not the heaviest wind I've ever seen before. It was rainy, but not raining particularly heavy at all. I'm on the 15th floor of a narrow 18-story building. My building creaked and swayed along with the wind. Felt like a rolling earthquake. Or like being on a ship. The window rattled a few times and I worried about it smashing. I got a text from a friend who lives in the Village at 8:35 p.m. Power was out. Said he saw a flash of blue light then the power went out. A couple hours later, his water was out. Everything's fine here, I said. Lights flickered a couple times. But that was it. By 11 p.m. the winds seemed to have died down a bit.

Tuesday: No school, no work. Spent probably all day with my eyes glued to the internet. Got nothing productive done. Tiptoed out once to mail my absentee ballot for the presidential election (wanted to make sure it got there on time since there could be mail delays). Still had enough food. Tuesday night my friend wanted to go for a walk around the neighborhood. Aside from some businesses being closed, and a few fallen branches, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. People were out and about, inside restaurants and bars. Very different from the world 80 blocks south and lower.

Wednesday: It was partly cloudy. And the buses were back in service and running for free. Still no school, no work. We thought it'd be a good idea to ride it to at least 59th Street and explore. It was a bad idea. It was a mad house. Every bus that passed was jam packed with people. We were barely able to get on one. By the 60s I was feeling claustrophobic. My friend got a seat and asked me if I could see what the traffic was like. To put it in Angeleno terms, the traffic was like the 405 on a rainy Friday at 5 p.m. Like getting out of the Rose Bowl after a big game. Like getting out of the Greek Theater after a show. Car traffic in Manhattan can be bad, but it is never like the L.A. traffic situations I just described, especially not on the Upper West Side. Yet that was it. Still we persisted and by the time we got below 40th I got a seat too, so we decided to stay on for the "free bus tour." Traffic got a little lighter as the bus pulled into the ghost town that was 34th Street and below, basically, the blackout zone. There were pedestrians on the street, but all the stores were shuttered, including the pharmacies and banks. That was surreal. At the last stop (just at the upper end of the Village) we walked around and saw people pumping water out of basements and parking garages. We walked by the Hudson River but didn't see anything in particular. We got back on the bus which drove past the High Line and Tom Colicchio's restaurant, Colicchio and Sons. A passing thought - even the super ritzy places are shuttered, as much as the mom and pops. And any of them could be forced to close after this.

We made it back after being out for four and a half hours, most of which was either on the bus or waiting for it, and decided that we were physically exhausted from the journey and called it a night.

Thursday: The sun came out for the first time in a week. But only briefly. It was also back to school/work, though it was relatively uneventful. Subways finally opened with partial service. On the news I saw hundreds of people trying to get on "bus bridges" - free shuttle buses that took people from points in Brooklyn to Manhattan. The bridges were backed up with cars as police tried to enforce a three-person carpooling rule. Gas ran out at gas stations. I was glad I didn't have to be on a bus or a bridge.

...to be continued...

While on the bus ride yesterday, which took an hour and a half when normally it would've taken about half an hour on the Express subway to cover the same distance, I thought about how much this city depends on mass transit. How actually, mass transit has made this city what it is. All these people - we wouldn't be living here, working here, if the mass transit system wasn't what it was. We have built our lives around it. If I had to commute an hour and a half every day on a crowded bus, I'd either quit my job or move closer to my job. There's no way I would do it. If people had to drive across the bridge on a three-person carpool every day, a lot of people wouldn't do it. And this city would not even be a city.

Conversely, how different would L.A. be if there was a good mass transit system in place? Without the stress of driving, people would travel across neighborhoods and blend together more often and on a daily basis. Ethnic enclaves and social divides might change! And L.A. would be a very different city...

Monday, October 8, 2012

Because in NYC, you never know where the day will take you...(thoughts on clothes and shoes)

Well it's officially been over two years now since I moved to NYC. Crazy, as it doesn't seem like that long ago. And when I moved, and realized just how many clothes (I used to have a walk-in closet) and shoes (more than 50 pairs) I had, I swore I wasn't going to buy any more for awhile, except in "dire need." Well guess what, I decided "dire need" happened more frequently than expected. This has mostly come about because....in NYC, you never know where the day will take you.

I can't just throw an extra pair of shoes and a jacket in the backseat of my car and drive off. This is also in part because I live so far uptown that it is really inconvenient and a waste of time to go back home if I've forgotten something. Thus, I need to bring with me anything that I might need for the entire day - or evening, depending on where the day goes. And a means to carry those things, without looking like a bag lady.

Since moving here I've needed to purchase several critical items. Surprisingly, not coats, as I already had a peacoat, two car coats, a couple of trenches, and raincoats (why? I am not sure since I had no use of them in L.A.). Such critical items include:
  • Large, stylish handbag - It needs to be large enough to hold all the basics, but also an umbrella, water bottle, an extra sweater, scarf, gloves (depending on time of year), reading material (because there is a lot of waiting around) yet is also stylish (not touristy or grandmotherly).
  • Comfortable, versatile shoes - something you can trek all over the city in, yet keeps your feet warm and dry in the winter (like flat, waterproof boots), and cool and dry in the summer (am still searching for these), that is yet again, stylish.
  • Puffer coat - OK, actually yes, I did buy a coat. It looks like a sleeping bag with a fuzzy hood. I held out for the first year, but it was such a miserable winter that I went ahead and bought one. Technically I could've survived last winter without one but I had bought it in preparation. It's hard to be stylish in one of these (they are inherently frumpy) but they are so warm! Necessary because putting on lots of layers, as I quickly learned, is a pain in the butt. Turns out that everywhere indoors is overheated, so the minute you step inside, you are sweating and want to remove your five layers. Sweaters are not even practical here. I found the best thing to do is to just wear regular lightweight clothing underneath a giant puffer coat, and just remove that one layer and put on that one layer. Convenient and efficient.
  • Rain boots - People wear these for style in L.A., rather than function. Here you need them for both. I never owned rain boots before. But since it rains here every week, there really is a need.
So, then I thought I was all set. I didn't need to purchase any more clothing. And granted, yes, I love shopping (there, I admitted it), I recently identified a large "gap" in my wardrobe. In my previous life (i.e., L.A.) my wardrobe consisted of two extremes - lots of casual clothing like t-shirts and jeans; and lots of work/office-appropriate clothing like business casual blouses, slacks, and skirts. Neither of which serve good daily purpose here in my "new" life in NYC. I still mostly like to wear jeans so...yes I purchased two pairs of new jeans last fall. And this fall - I've been on the hunt for more blouses that are dressy, but not officey, that go for day to night easily (because you never know where the day takes you), that are short-sleeved in case it gets warm, while still easy to layer over in case it gets cold. And there, there was my new excuse to go shopping. Sigh.

There is also, the obvious reason for diversifying your wardrobe that I don't need to go into detail - there are seasons here. Yes, seasons! (People dress differently - and in different colors! - depending on the season! Shocking for this native Angeleno).

I like this "identifying gaps in my wardrobe" principle, because it prevents me from constantly buying the same thing over and over again. I think I've read in magazines that people have a tendency to buy the same things because they like those things, rather than thinking about what they might need to keep their wardrobe diverse. This has totally been true for me - I have probably about 30 skirts, 30 dresses, 30 pairs of pants, all of which I wear only about 10% of. More than half of which are currently hanging in the closet at my parents' house...in L.A.! This proves to me that I didn't need those clothes at all!

A friend told me right before I moved that I was probably going to buy all new clothes in NYC because there are different needs here, and she was right! I didn't know what those needs were until I got here...

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

You Know You're a Real New Yorker When...

The Gothamist posted this today, gathering their criteria from that one episode of How I Met Your Mother and from an NY1 commercial, while adding some of their own. I thought I'd put my comments alongside such criteria to determine whether I've become a real New Yorker yet...
  • You've seen Woody Allen. [Note: or substitute whatever celebrity you see around your neighborhood.]
      • I haven't seen anyone. But this was the case for me in L.A. too. I chalk it up to tunnel vision.
  • You've stolen a cab from someone who needs it more than you do.
      • Why, I never! I'm not aggressive enough to ever do this. Guess I'll never be a real New Yorker. (On a side note, I have rarely witnessed this actually happening)
  • You've cried on the subway and not given a damn what anyone thinks.
      • Guilty. For reasons I won't divulge.
  • You've killed a cockroach with your bare hands.
      • Ew. I'll never do that. Though I have accidentally stepped on a few.
  • You don't pronounce Houston Street like the city in Texas.
      • They teach you that on the first day!
  • You don't stare when you spot a celebrity.
      • I'm from L.A. Case closed.
  • You never tell a cab driver where you're going until you're inside the cab.
      • This seemed like common sense to me and I've always done that.
  • When you've been here at least five years (weeds out the college dilettantes) combined with when you start talking about the thing that used to be on that corner three stores ago.
      • Darn, I'm still a college dilettante.
  • When you stop going out on Friday nights.
      • So true.
  • When you start going out on Monday nights.
      • So true!
  • When you stop giving money to homeless people.
      • Never have. (Again, I'm from L.A. 'nuff said.)
  • When you know better than to enter an empty subway car.
      • Oh boy have I learned this one!
  • When you know how to walk around tourists.
      •  I think my many years walking about a large university campus taught me this.
  • You just want SantaCon and the No Pants Ride to end already.
      • Whoa, SantaCon?!? I never even heard of that before. Guess I'm not a real New Yorker. And while I've heard of No Pants Ride, I haven't actually been on the subway on No Pants Ride day...
  • You can nap on the subway and play it cool when a rat scurries across your face.
      • I thought this was a bit exaggerated until I clicked on the link and watched that video. *shudder*
  • You don't even notice the pee smell in the subway system anymore.
      • Still notice. Darn, guess I'm not a real New Yorker...